Sunday, May 26, 2013

Lest We Forget

Good morning son! Well, what can I tell you? It's been another awesome week. The weather has been crappy but we survived. We've had tons of rain this week but the weatherman said this morning that we were 2" below normal for this time of year and we caught up this week. So, as lousy as it was, it was a good thing. The rhododendron in the front yard is in full bloom, hot pink, and is beautiful. Everything is lush and green. The temperature has been about 15 degrees below normal for this time of year but by the end of the week we're headed into the high 80's and probably be wishing for the low 50's, and that's the way it goes from here. I'm looking forward to the warm weather. I think dad's looking forward to putting in the air conditioners in preparation for the hot weather. He gets a big kick every year with my reaction every time he mentions it. He knows I HATE window air conditioners but sadly, if we want to sleep in the heat, it's necessary.

It's Memorial Day weekend and the flags are out everywhere. I can't see one without thinking of you. You loved the American flag and what it stood for. Since you were little you use to get so excited when you saw a flag. It is pretty awesome to see a flag completely unfurled in the wind. I don't know what happened to our large one since we moved. I picked up three from the Dollar Store and put them in planters on the porch and they look beautiful.

My solar chandelier
It's been a full week as always. Dad and I are busy all day and at the end of the "work week" we wonder where the days went. I finished my solar chandelier for the front porch and dad helped me hang it. At first the intent was to put 15 W chandelier bulbs in it and then I got this wild idea that maybe I could use the solar lights from Walmart that are $.94 each. I had three of them already in planters and they've been working just fine. It took eight of them, I added some crystals I already had an voile', a solar chandelier for the front porch. It gets plenty of light so the lights charge fine and give us enough light on the porch that we don't have to use the porch light and try to remember to turn it off at night.

I went over to have a pancake and a brief visit with Corey & Josie Friday morning. It turned out to be an all morning visit. I locked my keys in the car again. This Subaru isn't suppose to lock with the keys in the ignition but I guess it's forgotten that! Anyway, we had a good visit and an awesome chocolate chip pancake. Thanks Corey!  Yesterday Jon brought me a beautiful tomato plant. I just wanted one to see how it will do on the front porch. It gets plenty of sunshine so I think it will do fine. It would be really great to have fresh tomatoes all summer long. I think I'm going to use one of my drawer planters for a zucchini plant. One plant should produce enough zucchini to keep us in Zucchini Relish all summer and store some up for winter. I'm beginning to sound like a squirrel. Dad is finishing up the mirror right now and with any luck the weather will be better tomorrow and we'll get it installed in the corner of the porch and I can plant my strawberries. I'll have to find some type of netting to cover them or the birds will have them all.

ZUCCHINI RELISH
10 cups finely chopped squash
4 cups finely chopped onion
5 tablespoons salt
2 ¼ cups vinegar
4 cups sugar
1 tablespoon each: Nutmeg, Tumeric, Celery Seed, Black Pepper, Dry Mustard
2 red bell pepper, finely diced
2 green bell peppers, finely diced

Mix first three ingredients well and let stand overnight.  Drain, rinse well, drain and rinse again. Cheese cloth works well.  Add remaining ingredients, bring to boil, boil 30 minutes, seal in hot jars. Makes about 6 pints.


This next week I'm going to work on the entry. It's gross! I can't paint all the high walls any more but I can wash down the stairs and next landing, scrub  the "white" woodwork, paint the walls that lead to our front door and I'm going to paint our front door and the entry door in Cobalt Blue. I think I'm going to paint and use one of the old antique dressers I have in the entry so house all our winter gear, knee braces, doggie supplies and such. We have an entry light but it's on a timer and in the winter it usually doesn't come on until you get to our front door which isn't very safe. I usually keep a small lamp in the hall way. It would be cool if the entry gets enough light so that I can again use solar. I'm going to give it a try anyway and see. I think I can get it done in a week so we'll see how it goes. I'll keep you posted.

Dad and I are going to start working on the back deck too. We "found" two 2"x12"s out in the
I can still dream!
yard and are going to make a bench to go alongside the front of the deck. I wanted to build planters but this will be easier and basically the same effect. I'd like to power wash the deck, it really needs it, but I don't know if our landlord has one. We'll see. The niece thing about planting in pots is that it adds tons of color and are easily moved if we change out minds or the plant isn't doing well in the place we put it. Also if need be, we can put them all on the deck for winter and cover them if need be. Dad has his butane and can't wait to start barbecuing. I'm making the barbecue sauce today so he should be in good order for the nice weather tomorrow. I have a lot of scrubbing and cleaning at the back entrance too. It's great to have the time and still the energy to be able to do the things I love to do. We love our home and love fixing it up. God is so good.



Just try and tell me this is not amazing.
Speaking of God, how is He? I mean you really do have some first hand experience now. Is He anything like we imagine? I bet not, because all we have to imagine with are the tools that we have here and what we know here. There is just so much more to the universe than what we can even imagine because we are limited by what we know. I would imagine that's why so many people search for more and more knowledge. Sometimes when I'm "cruising" on Pinterest and see the pictures of places people post I am amazed at the beauty here on earth. And to think that there are places here on earth that even surpass what we've already discovered, that will probably be forever undiscovered. To try and imagine that the beauty of heaven is far greater still blows my mind. As I look out this morning on our little piece of heaven here on earth and see the bright green of the grass and trees, the glorious pinks, whites and yellows out my living room window and the flags billowing in the wind, I feel so very lucky. I think of the men and women who over the many years of our country have fought and died so I can have this little piece of heaven I am forever deeply grateful.

Ours is truly a great country and we are so very lucky. We have the freedom to choose. What a freedom that is. Just think about the possibility of not being able to make the everyday choices we take for granted every day. How would it be if we weren't able to choose for instance, when to get up. Who to marry. How many children to have. Who are friends were to be. What higher power we were going to worship. Where we were going to live.

Dad teases me every single day about projects and how many there are. I don't think I'll ever NOT have a project. It's been a lifelong dream of mine to be able to get up in the morning, set my feet on the floor and say to myself, "Hm, I wonder what I want to do today?", and do it. I remind myself every day there are thousands of people in the world for whom that is not possible. Not only do they not get to do what they want to do, they don't have a bed, floor or sometimes, even feet.

What a blessing it is to be in God's world, to enjoy His creation, to be blessed in so many ways and to know, without a doubt, that there is even a place more beautiful yet to come. I rest in this assurance, thank God for the privilege of choices and the miracle each and everyday to set my feet on the floor and live the life I have. 



Happy Memorial Day son. Tell grandpa thank you.

Until next week, be Aaron, love mom













Sunday, May 19, 2013

Another Day, Another Fairy Garden!

Good morning son! How's things in heaven? Things are good here. We're planting and planting and planting. Guess I should really think about a tomato plant or two and maybe some lettuce to keep us going through the summer.  

Josie's been here this weekend and she's been making fairy gardens for her two teachers at the end of school. She started with red baskets from the Dollar Store. She added a red
Josie building fairy gardens
geranium, painted her own fairy houses with "jewels" all over them, added, blue glass pebbles, bark, moss, a little bird in the top of the geranium and a butterfly "flying" over the garden . It was beautiful outside so we were able to do most of the work outside on the porch. Then, for her, the fun really began. She added stickers all around the basket!  She's colored Hello Kitty pictures, painted more birdhouses, painted hearts and glued wooden ladybugs and leaves on them, played computer games before she went to bed and watched some Disney At about 10:15 last night she fell asleep saying "auntie, I can't go to sleep" and slept until 8am this morning when she got up and came and crawled in bed with me. We lay there and laughed and giggled and she told me all about Fairy Beary.


This morning we've already had breakfast. Josie's was a treat, her favorite donut from Duncan Donuts: glazed donut with chocolate frosting and rainbow sprinkles. We've fed, watered and let Biscuit out, let the chickens out, we'll actually, I think the raccoons let the chickens out. The screen was out of the window in the chicken coop and the chickens were in the yard. I know
some people think chickens are dumb, but they're smart enough to give you a run for your money when you're trying to get them to go where you want them to go! Dad closed up the window, we got the chickens back in the pen, got some gas and Josie has already painted two birdhouses so "we're off and running".

We've gone from beautiful day yesterday to rain today. It looks, from the weather report, as though we're going to have sun and rain off and on throughout this week.  Hope the rain's more off than on, I have a chandelier I need to finish painting!

We've accomplished a lot this week and thank the Lord for the energy He gives us to do what we do. I was even able to get out in the yard and begin pulling weeds around the peonies. They are loaded with buds this year and I can't wait for them to bloom. The lilac bushes are in full bloom and I need to pick some for the house. Maybe it will dry off enough this afternoon so I can pick a bouquet. Right now, I don't know if I could find a place to sit a vase though!. Everything that we could possibly get out  is out on the floor or my art table. We're going to have some cleaning up to do this afternoon but for now, we're watching some Disney. I think she's slowing down a little bit. If you can believe that!

I've painted a couple of signs this week. I used an old try from a high chair for one and my old cow wall hanging that I use to have in the dining room. I've painted another chair and did it in red,white and blue for dad for the porch. It came out really nice. I'm going to put a seat on this one though rather than leave it open for a planter. Now we need to get started on the back deck. I'd like to do some sort of fire pit on the back deck. We'll see how it goes.

Tuesday, May 21st is your Aunt Bonnie's birthday!
 
Happy Birthday Bonnie!

 Well, guess that's about it for this week. 

Until next week, be Aaron, love mom.

PS Dad has a virus on his computer, where are you when we need you? LOL













Sunday, May 12, 2013

It's Mother's Day, Where's My Card?

Good morning son! I woke up this morning expecting to see "Happy Mother's Day" emblazoned in a rainbow across the sky. And lo and behold, there it was, right out my living room window. Gotcha! But I know you're thinking it and wishing you could do that. I saw it in my minds eye. Does that count? It counts for me and right now, that's what matters. We had such awesome Mother's Days together.  I remember the year I said I wanted to go to Wild Animal Safari. You and dad just looked at each other and  rolled your eyes. The entire day was always about what I wanted to do or go. I can remember when you were pretty young and you were upset because you didn't have any money and you didn't want dad to give you money to buy me anything because you said, "It would just be another gift from dad and not you and you'd have to buy what dad wanted because it was his money". I have no idea where that came from but I know you were upset and there was no rationalizing with you at that point. So, I told you that from that point on all I ever wanted from you on Mother's Day was a hand drawn card. I love those cards and I'm so thankful I have them. You never failed to make me one and I looked forward to each and every one to see what you would create. Thank you for great Mother's Day memories and all the love you shared with me. What a blessing you were. Keep up the good work! I'd say I'd expect my card again this year but I think that's stretching things just a little.

Today dad and I are re potting a new Double Delight rose. The weather got my other one last winter. I continue to work on the porch and having a great time. Corey found a mirror frame
along the street, the boys picked it up for me and I re-did it yesterday in red. The mirror was missing but dad and I found a mirror and today we'll put it all together and it's going out on the porch. I have plans to add a tray with strawberries to it...and probably a few other things. It will be a challenge to see who gets more strawberries, dad or the birds but I bet dad wins. After all, we're talking strawberries here. I've re potted about a dozen fern that dad dug up for me from out back, planted red geraniums and yellow pansies. Dad bought me some pots and planting mix for Mother's Day. That's what I requested.  I have them ready to put up today so we'll do that. Later today we're going to Jon & Corey's for ice cream. She's working in her garden today too. That's what we both wanted to do today. They're getting ready for 31 more baby chicks. The foxes got in last week and took almost all the chickens so it's good timing. That girl should be on a farm!

Georgia Jean
Well, we have yet another new baby in our family. Jenny & Phil have a new baby girl, Georgia Jean. All are healthy and happy. She looks so sweet. It's always nice to have a new baby in the family but to have two new ones within a couple of weeks together is really nice. I love the idea that they'll be able to know each other at a young age and hopefully make some memories together. I know that it was really great to have cousins to grow up with and go to school with. Jim and I had some great times together.

Allegra Taylor
Guess who grew up while we weren't looking? I don't know how she went from this tiny, tiny little thing that use to sit on the counter and play while we cooked to a stunning young lady going to her senior prom. Where did  all the years go?  They've all grown up. She'll graduate from High School May 24th and plans to attend college. She loves school. Who knows where the next steps will take her. I remember this little girl who grandma and I would take to school, pick up from school and on the way home she'd be jabbering, literally 90 mph, about everything she saw along the way: the cows, "moo", the manure (we were living in the San Joaquin Valley), "yuck", the train, "twain, twain", and "I want pink milk (which was a McDonald's Strawberry Milkshake) and fries. That little girls loved trains and everything about them. Dad and I finally found one for her that she could ride. It took up half our family room but she loved that train. She loved to be read to and I know we watched Lion King at least 200 times. We wore out one tape and had to buy another. She was so easy to please and so happy. She was always a joy to have around and I miss her. I miss them all. Sometimes it seems they are so close and yet so far away. The Lord willing we'll get to see them all sometime this year. That's the wish anyway. The Lord knows the desires of my heart.

This past week or so Ruth shared a link with me and it really touched my heart.



A Stranger came by the other day
with an offer that set me to thinking.
He wanted to buy the old barn
that sits out by the highway. 
I told him right off that he was crazy.
He was a city type...you could tell by his clothes,
his car, his hands, and the way he talked.
He said he was driving by and saw that beautiful barn
sitting out in the tall grass and wanted to know if it
was for sale.  I told him he had a funny idea of beauty.
Sure, it was a handsome building in its day. 
But then, there's been a lot of winters pass with the
snow and ice and howling wind.
The summer sun's beat down on that old barn
till all the paint's gone and the wood has turned
a silver gray.  Now the old building leans a good
deal looking kind of tired, yet that fellow
called it beautiful.
That set me to thinking.  I walked out to the field
and just stood there gazing at that old barn.
The stranger said he planned to use the lumber
to line the walls of his den in a new country
home he's building down the road.
He said you couldn't get paint that beautiful,
that only years of standing in the weather, bearing
the storms and scorching sun can produce
beautiful barn wood.

It came to me then.  We're a lot like that...you and I.
Only it's on the inside that the beauty grows with us.
Sure we turn silver gray, too...and lean a bit more
than we did when we were young and full of sap.
As the years pass, the hard weather of our lives, the
dry spells and the stormy seasons beautify our souls.
And to think, how often folks holler because they
want life easy!

Well, they took the old barn down today
...hauled it away to beautify a rich man's house. 
And I reckon someday you and I'll be
hauled off to that Great Ranch in the Sky.

So, hope there's peace with you today and
just trust that you're exactly
where you're meant to be.

So, hope there's peace with you today and
just trust that you're exactly
where you're meant to be.

I'm sincerely grateful and thankful for my
wonderful family and friends who care about
me even though I show signs of weathering!
You were a great son while the Lord shared you with me here on this earth and I know that God is so enjoying you there in your heavenly home. What a privilege it was to have you for the short time that God shared you with me. And I know that when I say me I mean your dad too. I know that because of who you were while you were here many lives are better, I know mine is. You were a living example of what every mother wants in a son and I know that because of who you were and strived to be other mothers have better sons.
Until next week, be Aaron, love mom



Sunday, May 5, 2013

God's Landscape

Butterflies and lilacs.
Good morning son! Another gorgeous day here in Troy. I'll bet those pearly gates really have a sparkle to them. Do you miss the seasons in heaven; no snow, rain, Fall leaves? Of course that also means, no cleaning gutters, shoveling snow or raking leaves so I guess there is an upside.

It's been yet another busy week. It is so great to be able to be outside in the sunshine to work in the yard. Just about the time we get it the way we want it it will probably be winter again but so what, we're having a wonderful time. You would have laughed your head off yesterday. Along our back deck we have many fern coming up. I decided before the kids get back there and trample them all down I'd transplant them for our porch and deck. Dad found me several pots in the basement. We both thought, and I know we did but can't find it, brought a shovel with us when we moved. I couldn't find it and I think Tom (the landlord) probably has all of his in the garage here. So, being the resourceful person that I am, I headed to the kitchen to get a long handled serving spoon! Well, what else was I going to use, a stick? I managed to dig out five of the small ones. I think I'll go borrow a shovel from Jon this morning. Needless to say, digging like that, I had charlie horses most of the night last night. Sure was gratifying though to get them planted.

I've almost finished my garden chair for the porch. Remember that high chair that Rita and
My garden chair...almost there!
Morris found for me at the Habitat Store in Eugene? Of course I brought it with me. How could you even think otherwise. I'm going to make a sign out of the high chair tray and a plant stand, as I said, for the front porch. I'll finish it up today and dad will add the gloss sealer and it will be ready for the porch. 


Did I tell you about the very nice, reclining, leather couch dad found at the Habitat Store week before last? Well anyway, we rented a trailer and went over this last Wednesday to pick it up. Of course they loaded it for us. And with recliners on either end it is NOT a light weight couch. It fit the 4x7 trailer perfectly. When we got home we moved our current couch out on the front porch. I vacuumed and damp mopped where the couch was going to sit and brushed down the cobwebs. We could do that with cobwebs every day around here. They are the busiest little creatures at night! Dad backed up the trailer up to the front porch and put the tailgate down. Just about that time Ethan, from the third floor came home. He'd told dad earlier that he would help him move it so that worked out perfectly. Ethan got in the trailer and dad got on the tailgate end. Umph! They stood there for a minute and the, umph! Have I said this couch was very heavy? The couch we had at one time with recliners in either end was simple to move. The back sections of the couch unlocked and slid off so we just turn the couch on it's side to move inside and then reattached the backs. This couch the backs were stitched in place. I wasn't going to mess with stitched leather. They got the couch out and onto the porch. As I sat there looking at it and the door of this house built in the 1800's I thought uh oh! You guessed it. The landlord has "jeri-rigged" that front door with 2x4s, 1x4's, shims and everything else which took up about 1 1/2" of width. Well, there we set with two couches on one porch
. Ethan needed to get ready for work and so we decided to take a break and "think" about this predicament. Over lunch dad and decided that dad would call and tell them we couldn't get it in our house and we were bringing it back. It was already 3pm and we had to have the trailer back by 6pm. Habitat didn't answer the phone. Sometimes they're so busy they just can't. Dad called again and left a message but no one called. As the clock made yet another circle we decided we had to make a decision. So, I said, Let's load the couch back into the trailer and take it back. You can talk with the manager and if he doesn't want to take it back we'll just 're-donate' it and they can unload it and we take the donation for taxes!". So, here we are, trying to shove this monster white whale back into the trailer. It argued, dad said "PUSH"! I did, and he went sailing. If he'd been back another three inches he would have gone flying over the end of the trailer. We were laughing so hard it took a while for dad to tell me his foot, yes, of course the one attached to his bad knee, was trapped under the couch. I still don't know how I did it, but I lifted that couch by myself so he could pull his foot out. Nothing broken but the next day we did end up at the doctor's office just to make sure. 

 Well, to make a longer story shorter, the manager said, as he was point to the very large sign that read, ALL SALES FINAL, MEASURE CORRECTLY, "Ill let you trade for something else but I can't give you your money back". Made my day! Dad and I decided to do the exchange for something half the amount and donate the rest to Habitat because they had already moved that monster once and now they were going to have to do it a second time. As it turns out, someone bought the couch again before they got it off the dolly. Hope they measured right!!  

Last night Josie, dad and I had a "date night". Dad cooked dinner and Josie and I built a fairy
Josie building her fairy garden.
garden. Actually, I dumped the dirt in the container and she did everything else. It was so great to be out on the front porch in the sun and working in the dirt. A couple of years ago I found a doll cradle somewhere and it was in pretty pad shape. My intent was to redo it for Josie's classroom. Somehow the school year was gone and I still had the cradle. I though it make a very cute fairy garden container. I had plants, rocks, moss, bark, "fairies", "water", dirt, spade, rake and water can. Yesterday I pulled the cradle out and low and behold, I forgot I had never replaced the bottom! Yikes! So, your resourceful dad went downstairs and crafted a bottom for the fairy garden container. After dinner Josie and I headed to the front porch and as the sun was setting we laughed, joked and she created as I watched. She used the blue rocks to create a "lake". By the time she was finished the fairy garden was sitting in a "lake". I gave her the option of making her own fairy house for her garden or of taking her pick of the collection I have. She decided to pick from what was already done. (She painted one later and a birdhouse as well.) She picked a blue one with a door shaped as a heart and proudly took it out and added it to her garden. She did an amazing job. It turned out so cute and we had a great time . We were still painting when Jon and Corey came to pick her up. Now she has decided we need to make one for each of her teachers before school is out. Guess we'd best get busy this week!


While we were on the porch last night we sat and watched and seven deer crossed the property and headed up the hill to bed for the night. They are so beautiful and it's amazing to see them casually meander across the property as if they don't have a care in the world. At one point Jamison barked and they just turned around and looked at him and continued to graze their way up the slope.

Why not dream big!
I just feel as though this is a very special time in my life and our lives together your dad and I. It's becoming a time to really enjoy nature around us. I don't remember ever really being that interested in yard work and gardening. I always did it because we had to, but for some reason this year it has more meaning and enjoyment. I'm looking for more ways to bring butterflies in, birds, to spend time on the deck and porch. We need to get some comfortable padded chairs on our porch, those old wooden things are not only falling apart, they're murder on my backside! My favorite page on Pinterest is Gardening. There are so many cool ideas. Speaking of cool ideas, I'd best get back to finishing my garden chair.

With all the love in my heart, until next week, be Aaron, love mom














Sunday, April 28, 2013

Blessings Abound

Hi son! What a beautiful day we're having. Sorry I'm late today, but I warned you last week. 

Before I go any further I want to remind you that it was Rita's birthday yesterday. First, her birthday disappeared from my iPhone calendar and I had to ask her to refresh my memory, I was two days off, and then dad's sugar has been messed up a couple of days and so I missed calling her on Saturday. And today of all days, she's off having fun with Morris. Imagine that! So Rita, I know you're reading this, Happy Birthday! I love you!

Dad and I didn't make it to church this morning. He woke up again this morning at 6 am and his sugar was a mess until about noon. It's been dropping way down to the 40's still but he manages to edge it up with honey until it's normal and then it stays okay usually for the remainder of the day. The doctor has written him orders for some new blood work so guess he'll get that done next week. He's fine this afternoon, just stayed quiet this morning until he got it regulated.

I took a "field trip" with Corey this morning. She was headed to Joann's and I was running very low on some specific paint colors that I use a lot. My problem lately is, do I build fairy houses or do I paint. They each make their own mess and the two messes don't mix very well so I try and limit the studio to one particular mess at a time.

Dad and I took a trip to the Habitat Store last week looking for more chairs. I found one that will work but several others they had were $25 each and I'm not looking to invest that much. As
This is what they're for...
Corey and I were picking up Josh from Hebrew School this morning there sat two chairs by the garbage in the alley. We were loaded with flowers and so after I got home dad and I went back and there they still were so we loaded them up. So, dad and I took a trip around the neighborhood and found a very nice night stand to redo, two more chairs for the porch (these are MINE) and a brand new patio umbrella that dad wants to use on the back deck. We had to make two trips but it was worth it. I have enough chairs to last me this week. Next week I'll probably work on fairy houses.


This is what I'm doing with the chairs.
Josie is not feeling well yesterday and today. I stopped in to see her why Corey and Josh were loading up one of their very unfriendly roosters that someone had agreed to take. She's going to come over one afternoon next week and we're going to make her a fairy garden that she can take home in a doll cradle that I have. I picked up some plants today while Corey and I were out.

Dad and I finished our dining room table and chairs and we love them. I put three coats of mod podge on the top while I was laying down the music sheets and then dad put on 7 coats of polyurethane. We love how it came out. Then, dad stripped the kitchen floor and mopped and waxed it anew. You can see yourself in it. Right now, if I look through the studio to the kitchen the kitchen floor looks like a sea of glass. Next week, the studio floor! That's going to be a little bit more of a challenge considering all that I have in there. 

The front porch is coming right along. Those two chairs we brought home today are going to be a week long project but they're all wood so dad can replace one of the bottom braces on one, we'll clean with a wire brush and then a good coat of white enamel paint. I would love to paint a "rug" on the porch but I don't know if I will have the time this year. I'll just have to see how it goes.

We did some checking on the Saturday Market here but they've changed it to Friday night's once a month and it's pretty spendy for us so we're looking at about a half dozen different things going on it our area like church craft sales, flea markets and such where tables are a little less expensive. They have a huge craft market here at Hudson Valley College a couple of times a year but it's way out of our league and everything has to be hand made from scratch; nothing reclaimed, refreshed or reused. That kind of defeats our whole purpose of trying to use what's already available and still usable or re purposed. I could make signs, and most likely will, but a space for that particular fair is $350 for the weekend for a 4x10' space.Our of our league.

So tell me, what's Spring like in heaven? I can only imagine. And that's as it should be, but I can picture iris, lilacs, daffodils, tulips, fuchsias, daisies, black-eyed susans, sweet peas, and oh the fragrance. I can just smell all of those flowers and see the butterflies and birds. I can hear the crickets at night and hear the bullfrogs croak in the full streams and under the waterfalls. Heaven must be a glorious place. I guess I really didn't think much about heaven when I was younger. I knew it was there and that one day I'd be there but other than that, not many questions. But, as people I love have gone on to be with the Lord the image has become clearer. I'm sure that everyone who things about heaven imagines it in his or her own way. I imagine it with the things that I love and enjoy. Dad and I often talk about and wonder if you're actually getting to spend time with family you never knew. If you've had a chance to spend time with your "pa" and "ma" Jamison, "mamaw and papaw" Coffman, great grandpa and grandma or the three brothers/sisters that we lost before and after you. For us, it's more comforting to think about you being with people who love you than to just imagine you "off in a void" somewhere. But then again, never in my life did I EVER see you without people around you who knew and loved you. 

Well, I do believe Spring has finally arrived. Enjoy your time there with beauty we cannot even imagine here. Spread your joy. As I sit here and look over at your picture I can only smile and I think again about how proud the Lord must be knowing He created such a man after His own heart. I know we are.

Until next week, be Aaron, love mom


 

Sunday, April 21, 2013

Reality in a Mirror

Good morning son! What a beautiful day. The sun is out and the leaves are showing on the trees. Spring is working very diligently to break out everywhere. Although, I did have to cover all my new plants on the porch due to freezing last night. What's up with that? 

I said on Facebook this last week, "Is is bad that my house looks like it needs a housekeeper and all I want to do is paint? Too bad!? I must say however, that only works so long. If I don't do some housekeeping tomorrow, with dad's help, we're going to have to plant a garden in here. 

Yesterday, I finished another chair and started the kitchen table. Dad's been waiting since I finished the kitchen chairs. I finished all the painting. Today I'm doing the table top. He's asked that I mod podge the top with some of his old sheet music. Last night we sat down and went through it all and picked out some pieces. We've had it for over 25 years and some of it was older than that when we bought it so we might as well use some of it. I think it's going to be really great when I get it done.

Flower stand
Flower drawers
I could paint every day and still have more projects to do. However, once the table is complete the other projects will be for building up stock to sell. I love the raised flower boxes I made out of old dresser drawers. This next Saturday dad and I are going to begin our garage sale, flea market, dumpster diving, side of road salvaging extravaganza of Spring and Summer. Some of the best items we've found have been left on the side of the road here. Some garbage days it's like a treasure trove for the pickin'. You can leave anything, and I mean anything, out for the garbage here and they pick it up: couches, hot water heaters, dressers, old lumber, plants. You name it and they'll pick it up. 

Flower stand
And, so can anyone else. It's a hoot and like I said, we've found some great things to recycle.Well, enough of the chit-chat, oh wait, that's what we do every Sunday morning isn't it. Well truth is, I chit but you don't do much of the chat. You use to be able to work that right in. You knew the exact moment when I wast going to take a breath and you would jump right in. We had some great conversations didn't we. I miss those two-way conversations every day, but, I'm okay and can now actually say it and smile.

Kristin told dad she has mailed him your old Monopoly game pieces. He's very excited. I'm keeping my eyes open for an old printer's drawer so he can display them in his study. It was just too expensive to mail the cases too.They're suppose to arrive next week and he's looking forward to looking through them and having them close.


Aaron and his dad
I need to talk with you about something. Dad and I are going to begin visiting some churches in the area next Sunday. That will mean that our Sunday morning conversations  will need to happen at another time during the week. I know that will be okay with you, but I'm having a little "twitch" about it. Dad and I agree that it's time to find a church. It's been a long time. We don't have any great aspirations other than to go worship and fellowship. If the Lord has something else, He'll let us know. We've found a small  Baptist church in Rensselaer. Dad and the pastor have talked a couple of times. We drove by last week. It's quite an old building and they only have about 25 members. I do have to admit that at first I balked a little. Another small church and all seniors. Then the Lord softly...slapped me upside the head, and said, "I just could have something for you there. These are my faithful servants you're talking about.  Go!" I got the message. Besides that, I had to laugh when I turned my nose up at the fact everyone was a senior as I turned around and looked in the mirror. FBC Rensselaer NY

Mother's Day is right around the corner and I want to warn you ahead of time, that's the most difficult day of the year for me. That's the day I miss you the most. You always made Mother's Day so very special. From the first Mother's Day after you were born dad always made sure it was a very special day for me. As you got older, you always continued to make it a very special day. I don't think they'll be tears this year, but if there are we'll just deal with it.


God continues to provide and bless us. We're looking forward to trying our hand at Saturday Market here in Troy. I'm looking forward to the buying part; fresh fruits and veggies and dad is looking forward to the selling part; refreshed, re-purposed and re-painted items. A good project for Spring and Summer. A chance to refresh, re-purpose, and "re-paint" things in our lives.To reuse the old skills in a new way.

I love you son. Always have, always will. Have a great week in heaven. I'll be in touch . Until then, I love you, be Aaron. Love mom











Sunday, April 14, 2013

Amazes He Still Amazes

Spring does come!
Good morning son! We're looking forward to a sunny and 52 degree day and then mid-60's to 70 the remainder of the week. The birds have been thick on the porch enjoying the bird feeder. Just about the time I think the squirrel has given up I look out and there he is again looking up and trying to figure out how he's going to reach it.  The wind is pretty breezy out there this morning but it doesn't seem to be effecting the birds at all.

It's been a busy week as usual; wouldn't have it any other way, but didn't get to spend enough time in the studio. I'm working on stocking up the fairy house inventory and want to begin on our next big project. We took a trip to Home Depot yesterday to pick up color swatches so I can decide what colors to use for the dresser I'm redoing. I think I'll be going with "shades of grey" believe it or not. LOL. I didn't even realize what I was saying until I put it on paper. Dad wanted to paint it the same shades of blue we have in the house but after the "chairs incident" I don't think that's a good idea. Remember the chairs I refinished and recovered a few weeks ago? Well, once I finished them dad "begged" to keep them. I can't say I was too disappointed to keep them so they are now in our kitchen and I'll be redoing the chairs we had in the kitchen. I just laughed when he said do the dresser in our shades of blue. If I keep redoing things in the colors we love NOTHING will leave this house!

Here's what I've started.
First thing on the agenda today though is to get my starter plants replanted. They are quickly outgrowing the egg cartons in which they began their journey. They're coming along really great and I'm very excited to see how they do throughout the season. I've always talked about pre-starting the seeds but have never done it. I find myself more and more into outdoors, the porch and deck, flowers and plants lately. Dad's going to help me move my Double Delight rose to the front porch. I really can't plant a lot in the small front yard we have because the deer will keep it eaten right down to the ground. I think I'm going to try planting some Creeping Jenny and see how that works. I don't know if the deer like it or not so guess I'll check before I plant.

Poor dad. He never quite knows where I'm going next when it comes to projects. The truth is, neither do I.  Right now I'm pretty much going with what I have. Dad is so good about just going where I point. Right now he's going to hang my old screen door, that use to be on the wall, in the entry to our laundry room. He laughed when I told him what I wanted but he'll do it. He said he's never thought about a screen door on a laundry room entrance. Why not? I have it so I can use what I already have. I'll add sheers instead of screen and voile' it hides the laundry room. I can't wait. Dad and Jamison have been great gatherers for the bark and moss for the fairy houses. They take "gathering bags" with them everywhere. I have to be careful what I ask for or dad will be stripping bark from trees rather than gathering from the ground. I was just texting with your Aunt Bonnie last night and found out she's a crafter too. She's made some cool wreaths and flower arrangement. We shared some pictures and will be sharing more.

Jamison received his first haircut of the season. He looks so cute. After having the "ball of fur" all winter it's so funny to see him clipped down, but it was time. I bet if we had weighed him before his haircut we would have found he lost 10 pounds in hair. Dad kept worrying that he was gaining weight but it's pretty evident once he got his hair cut that that is not the case.


Speaking of dogs, have you seen the newest addition to the household of the Troy 9. No. Oh my goodness, they are two of the cutest puppies ever. And they're so soft. They are a mixture of boxer, shepherd and lab. They are the coloring of a chocolate lab. They're two little girls named Biggie and Reba. They're about 7 weeks old now and believe or not, Biscuit plays with them fine and doesn't try to eat them. You never know, Biscuit is one of the most protective dogs I've ever seen, but one of the sweetest. 

But, of all the things in our lives this last week, we continue to trust the Lord in all things and He continues to amaze us. How can it be that after all these years God still amazes us. I mean really, we know what He can do so why are we surprised when it happens. I've never figured that one out. Here's an example, again. As you know, dad and I pretty much work from cash since we're both retired. It has really simplified our life and makes us extremely aware of what we have to work with at all times. But let's begin at the beginning.

As you know, but don't have to worry about any more, it's tax time. Dad and I talked earlier in the year and decided that from now on we could file our own because after all, we're on a fixed income and nothing really changes from year to year so the short form should work fine. So, I left it figuring I could just put in the income, add a couple of times and be done. Pfft! You'd think wouldn't you? How come then that there are 16 pages of instructions to a page and a half form? I spent an entire day trying to come up with percentages this and percentages of that and what did I get. Nada! So, I made an appointment with the tax person who completed ours last year. I had figured out that we wouldn't own anything. Last year was the first time in 42 years we had not owed. I know, I know, long story but no matter how much extra we had taken out of our paychecks we still ended up owing. Anyway, that's in the past and we're just glad it is no more. Anyway when we called  H & R to talk with Beverly she said to come in and she'd take a look and tell us how much it would cost to figure taxes before you did them and filed them. She gave us an estimate, filed our taxes, we owed nothing and when we left the office we had $21 in our pockets and we still had to get gas, we were on empty. We said thank you Lord, stopped and got $20 in gas and went home for lunch. We knew we'd be fine until payday and had plenty to keep us busy so other than just knowing things we're so close we'd make do with what we had. 

Jamison knows when the mail comes every day. We had left him home that morning and so by the time we got home he immediately began nagging dad to go check the mail. Dad come in and handed me the mail just like he always does and guess what. There, buried in a handful of junk mail, was a check from KJCG  for mileage that we had both forgotten about.  We both laughed and enjoyed the moment knowing that God cares for us more than the birds on our porch or the flowers that spring forth from the winter ground. And here, He proves it yet again.

The Birds of Heaven
& the Lilies of the Field

Scripture: Matthew 6:24-34 (Luke 12:24-27) 24 "No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other.  You cannot serve God and mammon. 25 "Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you shall eat or what you shall drink, nor about your body, what you shall put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? 26 Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more  value than they? 27 And which of you by being anxious can add one cubit to his span of life? 28 And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow; they neither toil nor spin; 29 yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. 30 But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you, O  men of little  faith? 31 Therefore do not be anxious, saying, `What shall we eat?' or `What shall we drink?' or `What shall we wear?' 32 For the Gentiles seek all these things; and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. 33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things shall be yours as well. 34 "Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Let the day's own trouble be sufficient for the day.

Until next week, be Aaron, love mom